Hai bride to be..

Wanna share about your experiences in preparing the marriage?

Ya, I wanna share about that..

So many things to do to prepare the wedding day..
One of them is:

You must decide about "the date and the place" 

In Indonesia, especially in Java, we must calculate the date for the wedding day. The date is calculated from the bride and groom birthday date and combine with Java's calendar. And you must remember, if you want to calculate the date with your parents or the elders, you must be consistent and approve. But if you don't, so don't ever think about to ask, because in Java belief if you had asked, but you don't listen, it will be bad for you.. 
So, remember,, just do as you and your couple could do..  
My experience is I ask my elders, which is my boyfriend grandma and grandpa.. 
The problem is, when they suggested the date, the venue for the wedding is not available,, 
What a great problem, because we must search the venue that we want to held our wedding,, and you know what, nowadays,, so many couple want to married,, it means that not only you that want that venue,, 

For the search, I wish you wouldn't got headache.. 
Hope so..

For me,,
Guess how many times i had to go there or call the person in charge?? 

many times, but it was the process,, and after we did it,, It was so glad that finally we found the right place..
Even we don't know for the future,, At least, we hope that it will bring us to happiness..
We decided to use the mosque for the venue,, 
I was fall in love for the first time to that mosque and he loved it too.. 
Yeay,, it was so lovely,,

Finally, after searching the date and the venue,,
With say Bismillah, this date and place would be my silent witness for my wedding..

My suggestion for you is,,
You will married someone who will be your partner in your life,,
In sadness or happiness,, 
So, when you want to reached something,, such as, want to make your dream comes true about marriage,, Maybe want to held marriage in garden, beach, hotel or else,, Just share it to your closest partner..
Please say it to your groom to be,,
Even he just say hem,, or ya,, 
Just believe that he understand and want to reached it for you both..

Remember that marriage will bring two people with different personality,,
become one family that will live together..

So, be happy and love your partner..

Hope the marriage will bring us to happiness,,


With a great love,

Your friends,,